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Trust is confidence in ourselves, others, and our sense of the Divine. Trust takes a risk; in the absence of certainty, is assumes that goodness, truth, honor, fairness, or ability will prevail. For another person to place trust in us is a wonderful and delicate gift.


Sometimes people trust us to be or do more than we can. Children often trust their parents in this way. An expectation of perfection can make trust fragile and brittle so that it is crushed by disappointment. But if we honor trust as a gift and if we honor the vulnerability of the giver, trust can grow through and beyond disappointments.


Trust becomes resilient when it is grounded in reality – when it recognizes the imperfections and yet sees the through-line of goodness that lies beneath and beyond them.

The Cake
Put all together, seemingly unpleasant things can make something good.

A little boy is telling his Grandma how "everything" is going wrong...school, family problems, severe health problems, etc. Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks the child if he would like a snack, which of course he does. 

    "Here. Have some cooking oil." 

    "Yuck," says the boy.  

    "How about a couple of raw eggs?" 

    "Gross, Grandma." 

    "Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?" 

    "Grandma, those are all yucky!" 

To which the Grandma replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake! 

The Cake

A little boy is telling his Grandma how "everything" is going wrong...school, family problems, severe health problems, etc. Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks the child if he would like a snack, which of course he does. 

    "Here. Have some cooking oil." 

    "Yuck," says the boy.  

    "How about a couple of raw eggs?" 

    "Gross, Grandma." 

    "Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?" 

    "Grandma, those are all yucky!" 

To which the Grandma replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake! 

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http://www.americaninspirational.com/stories_acceptance.htm
Viewed on March 1, 2008
Contribution #416