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Generosity is freely sharing what you have with others. It is being willing to offer money, help or time when it is needed. To be generous means giving something that is valuable to you without expectation of reward or return. Many traditions measure generosity not by the size of the gift, but by what it cost the giver.


Sometimes generosity requires pushing past a feeling of reluctance because we all instinctively want to keep good things for ourselves. Even so, we can structure our lives in ways that make generosity more spontaneous and fun. When we intentionally "live below our means" and avoid overcommitment, we cultivate a sense of bounty or surplus that makes us want to share. When we give, we reap the pleasure of knowing we have made someone else's life a little happier.

Generosity


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A Love Song
There's a wren in a willow wood
Flies so high, sings so good
And he brings to you, what he sings to you

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On Science and Reason
To love justice, to long for the right,
to love mercy, to pity the suffering, to assist the weak,
to forget wrongs and remember benefits--
to love the truth, to be sincere, to utter honest words,
to love liberty, to wage relentless war against slavery in all its forms,
to love wife and child and friend, to make a happy home,
to love the beautiful; in art, in nature,
to cultivate the mind, to be familiar with the mighty thoughts that genius has expressed, the noble deeds of all the world,
to cultivate courage and cheerfulness, to make others happy,
to fill life with the splendor of generous acts, the warmth of loving words,
to discard error, to destroy prejudice, to receive new truths with gladness,
to cultivate hope, to see the calm beyond the storm, the dawn beyond the night,
to do the best that can be done and then to be resigned---
this is the religion of reason, the creed of science. 
This satisfies the brain and heart.

On Science and Reason

To love justice, to long for the right,
to love mercy, to pity the suffering, to assist the weak,
to forget wrongs and remember benefits--
to love the truth, to be sincere, to utter honest words,
to love liberty, to wage relentless war against slavery in all its forms,
to love wife and child and friend, to make a happy home,
to love the beautiful; in art, in nature,
to cultivate the mind, to be familiar with the mighty thoughts that genius has expressed, the noble deeds of all the world,
to cultivate courage and cheerfulness, to make others happy,
to fill life with the splendor of generous acts, the warmth of loving words,
to discard error, to destroy prejudice, to receive new truths with gladness,
to cultivate hope, to see the calm beyond the storm, the dawn beyond the night,
to do the best that can be done and then to be resigned---
this is the religion of reason, the creed of science. 
This satisfies the brain and heart.

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What's God Got to Do with It?
by ed. Tim Page
Page 112 "On Science and Reason"
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-God-Got-Ingersoll-Separation/dp/1586420968/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1224970457&sr=8-1
Contribution #2286

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What's God Got to Do with It?
by ed. Tim Page
Page 112 "On Science and Reason"
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-God-Got-Ingersoll-Separation/dp/1586420968/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1224970457&sr=8-1
Contribution #2286


of Good and Evil

And one of the elders of the city said, "Speak to us of Good and Evil."
And he answered:

Of the good in you I can speak, but not of the evil.
For what is evil but good tortured by its own hunger and thirst?
Verily when good is hungry it seeks food even in dark caves, and when it thirsts, it drinks even of dead waters.

You are good when you are one with yourself.
Yet when you are not one with yourself you are not evil.
For a divided house is not a den of thieves; it is only a divided house.
And a ship without rudder may wander aimlessly among perilous isles yet sink not to the bottom.

You are good when you strive to give of yourself.
Yet you are not evil when you seek gain for yourself.
For when you strive for gain you are but a root that clings to the earth and sucks at her breast.
Surely the fruit cannot say to the root, "Be like me, ripe and full and ever giving of your abundance."
For to the fruit giving is a need, as receiving is a need to the root.

You are good when you are fully awake in your speech,
Yet you are not evil when you sleep while your tongue staggers without purpose.
And even stumbling speech may strengthen a weak tongue.

You are good when you walk to your goal firmly and with bold steps.
Yet you are not evil when you go thither limping.
Even those who limp go not backward.
But you who are strong and swift, see that you do not limp before the lame, deeming it kindness.

You are good in countless ways, and you are not evil when you are not good,
You are only loitering and sluggard.
Pity that the stags cannot teach swiftness to the turtles.

In your longing for your giant self lies your goodness: and that longing is in all of you.
But in some of you that longing is a torrent rushing with might to the sea, carrying the secrets of the hillsides and the songs of the forest.
And in others it is a flat stream that loses itself in angles and bends and lingers before it reaches the shore.
But let not him who longs much say to him who longs little, "Wherefore are you slow and halting?"
For the truly good ask not the naked, "Where is your garment?" nor the houseless, "What has befallen your house?"

of Good and Evil

And one of the elders of the city said, "Speak to us of Good and Evil."
And he answered:

Of the good in you I can speak, but not of the evil.
For what is evil but good tortured by its own hunger and thirst?
Verily when good is hungry it seeks food even in dark caves, and when it thirsts, it drinks even of dead waters.

You are good when you are one with yourself.
Yet when you are not one with yourself you are not evil.
For a divided house is not a den of thieves; it is only a divided house.
And a ship without rudder may wander aimlessly among perilous isles yet sink not to the bottom.

You are good when you strive to give of yourself.
Yet you are not evil when you seek gain for yourself.
For when you strive for gain you are but a root that clings to the earth and sucks at her breast.
Surely the fruit cannot say to the root, "Be like me, ripe and full and ever giving of your abundance."
For to the fruit giving is a need, as receiving is a need to the root.

You are good when you are fully awake in your speech,
Yet you are not evil when you sleep while your tongue staggers without purpose.
And even stumbling speech may strengthen a weak tongue.

You are good when you walk to your goal firmly and with bold steps.
Yet you are not evil when you go thither limping.
Even those who limp go not backward.
But you who are strong and swift, see that you do not limp before the lame, deeming it kindness.

You are good in countless ways, and you are not evil when you are not good,
You are only loitering and sluggard.
Pity that the stags cannot teach swiftness to the turtles.

In your longing for your giant self lies your goodness: and that longing is in all of you.
But in some of you that longing is a torrent rushing with might to the sea, carrying the secrets of the hillsides and the songs of the forest.
And in others it is a flat stream that loses itself in angles and bends and lingers before it reaches the shore.
But let not him who longs much say to him who longs little, "Wherefore are you slow and halting?"
For the truly good ask not the naked, "Where is your garment?" nor the houseless, "What has befallen your house?"

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Source type: Book
The Prophet
Page 64-66
Published by Alfred A. Knapf , New York , 1992
http://www-rcf.usc.edu/~pvk/literature/gibran/gibran22.html
Contribution #1844

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The Prophet
Page 64-66
Published by Alfred A. Knapf , New York , 1992
http://www-rcf.usc.edu/~pvk/literature/gibran/gibran22.html
Contribution #1844


The Deserving -- from the Prophet
You often say, "I would give, but only to the deserving."
The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture.
They give that they may live, for to withhold is to perish.
Surely he who is worthy to receive his day and his nights, is worthy of all else from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream.
And what desert greater shall there be, than that which lies in the courage and the confidence, nay the charity, of receiving?
And who are you that men should rend their bosom and unveil their pride, that you may see their worth naked and their pride unabashed?
See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving.
For in truth it is life that gives unto life--while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness.

The Deserving -- from the Prophet

You often say, "I would give, but only to the deserving."
The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture.
They give that they may live, for to withhold is to perish.
Surely he who is worthy to receive his day and his nights, is worthy of all else from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream.
And what desert greater shall there be, than that which lies in the courage and the confidence, nay the charity, of receiving?
And who are you that men should rend their bosom and unveil their pride, that you may see their worth naked and their pride unabashed?
See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving.
For in truth it is life that gives unto life--while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness.

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The Prophet
Page 21
Published by Alfred A. Knopf , New York , 1992
http://
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The Prophet
Page 21
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Of Giving

Then said a rich man, Speak to us of Giving.
And he answered:

You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
For what are your possesions but things you keep and guard for fear you may need them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?

There are those who give little of the much which they have--and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and give it all.
These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is never empty.
There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.
And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is their baptism.
And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue;
They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He smiles upon the earth.

Of Giving

Then said a rich man, Speak to us of Giving.
And he answered:

You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
For what are your possesions but things you keep and guard for fear you may need them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?

There are those who give little of the much which they have--and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and give it all.
These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is never empty.
There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.
And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is their baptism.
And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue;
They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He smiles upon the earth.

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The Prophet
Page 19-20
Published by Alfred A Knopf , New York , 1992
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/giving/
Contribution #1815

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The Prophet
Page 19-20
Published by Alfred A Knopf , New York , 1992
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/giving/
Contribution #1815


Generosity
Generosity is another quality which, like patience, letting go, non-judging, and trust, provides a solid foundation for mindfulness practice. You might experiment with using the cultivation of generosity as a vehicle for deep self-observation and inquiry as well as an exercise in giving. A good place to start is with yourself. See if you can give yourself gifts that may be true blessings, such as self-acceptance, or some time each day with no purpose. Practice feeling deserving enough to accept these gifts without obligation-to simply receive from yourself, and from the universe.

Generosity

Generosity is another quality which, like patience, letting go, non-judging, and trust, provides a solid foundation for mindfulness practice. You might experiment with using the cultivation of generosity as a vehicle for deep self-observation and inquiry as well as an exercise in giving. A good place to start is with yourself. See if you can give yourself gifts that may be true blessings, such as self-acceptance, or some time each day with no purpose. Practice feeling deserving enough to accept these gifts without obligation-to simply receive from yourself, and from the universe.

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Jon Kabat-zinn
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Contribution #971

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I'm in such a grand and generous mood,
    I want to give you a stuffed animal
      as a token for a good night sleep.
    I want to give you a two dollar bill
                        to bring you luck.
    I want to give you a wild flower
to scent your house with a nice fragrance.

  I want to give you a song in my clarinet.
    I want to give you a smile that will
                            bring you joy.

I'm in such a grand and generous mood,
    I want to give you a stuffed animal
      as a token for a good night sleep.
    I want to give you a two dollar bill
                        to bring you luck.
    I want to give you a wild flower
to scent your house with a nice fragrance.

  I want to give you a song in my clarinet.
    I want to give you a smile that will
                            bring you joy.

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4th grade Hana
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Contribution #970

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I will give you my treasures I kept
for a long time.
I will give you a petal
that falls from a rose.
I will give you the first golden leaf
that falls in autumn.
I will give you the sunken diamond
that shines more than the sun.
I will give you my last treasure,
the seashell that echoes like the ocean.

I will give you my treasures I kept
for a long time.
I will give you a petal
that falls from a rose.
I will give you the first golden leaf
that falls in autumn.
I will give you the sunken diamond
that shines more than the sun.
I will give you my last treasure,
the seashell that echoes like the ocean.

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Unknown
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Prayer

Make us worthy, Lord,
To serve our fellow men
Throughout the world who live and die
In poverty and hunger.

Give them, through our hands
this day their daily bread,
And by our understanding love,
Give peace and joy.

Prayer

Make us worthy, Lord,
To serve our fellow men
Throughout the world who live and die
In poverty and hunger.

Give them, through our hands
this day their daily bread,
And by our understanding love,
Give peace and joy.

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Mother Teresa: A Complete Authorized Biography
by Kathryn Spink
Page p. 130
Published by Harper Collins , 1997
http://books.google.com/books?id=cTIiakYrwWcC
Contribution #144

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Source type: Book
Mother Teresa: A Complete Authorized Biography
by Kathryn Spink
Page p. 130
Published by Harper Collins , 1997
http://books.google.com/books?id=cTIiakYrwWcC
Contribution #144