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Openness means keeping our minds and hearts available for new experiences, ideas, and relationships. It means working to move beyond the boundaries of the familiar, in particular the walls that can be erected by tribe and tradition.


Openness and curiosity are two of the primary conditions for discovery. Openness feels risky, because it means venturing onto unfamiliar ground, but can also be full of unexpected delights. When we are open, we notice that life is constantly presenting us with new information and opportunities for growth.

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If I were two-faced, would I be wearing this one?

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Abraham Lincoln
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No method nor discipline can supersede the necessity of being forever on the alert. What is a course of history, or philosophy, or poetry, or the most admirable routine of life, compared with the discipline of looking always at what is to be seen? Will you be a reader, a student merely, or a seer?

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It always seemed strange to me that the things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, aquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and selfinterest are the traits of sucess. And while men admire the quality of the first, they love the produce of the second.

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Be still, and the world is bound to turn herself inside out to entertain you. Everywhere you look, joyful noise is clanging to drown out quiet desperation.

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High Tide in Tucson
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I like not to know for as long as possible because then it tells me the truth instead of me imposing the truth.

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It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.

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The Little Prince
Page chapter 21, page 87
Published by Harcourt, Brace & World, Inc. , 1943
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Contribution #3662


Commandment Number One for any truly civilized society is this: Let people be different.

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We must all beware the very real and understandable human tendency to ignore or subvert facts, and findings of science, that discomfort us for reasons of ideology, politics, religion, or personal taste.

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A man's library is a sort of harem.

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If there is a bedrock principle underlying the First Amendment, it is that the government may not prohibit the expression of an idea simply because society finds the idea itself offensive or disagreeable.

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Texas v. Johnson
http://caselaw.lp.findlaw.com/scripts/getcase.pl?court=us&navby=case&vol=491&invol=397
Contribution #3600


Restriction of free thought and free speech is the most dangerous of all subversions. It is the one un-American act that could most easily defeat us.

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("The One Un-American Act." Nieman Reports, vol. 7, no. 1, Jan. 1953, p. 20)
Contribution #3599


If we don't believe in freedom of expression for people we despise, we don't believe in it at all.

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New occasions teach new duties, Time makes ancient good uncouth.

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I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.

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Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible -- the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family.

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Seek first to understand, then to be understood.

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People change and forget to tell each other.

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Generally speaking, the first nonviolent act is not fasting, but dialogue. The other side, the adversary, is recognized as a person, he is taken out of his anonymity and exists in his own right, for what he really is, a person. To engage someone in dialogue is to recognize him, have faith in him. At every step in the nonviolent struggle, at every level we try tirelessly to establish a dialogue, or reestablish it if it has broken down. When I say 'the other side,' that could be a group of persons or a government.

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Preserving the right to uncensored expression is important not only because it is indispensable for an objective examination of truth claims—it is no accident that dictatorships uniformly suppress speech—but also because it has intrinsic value. Human dignity requires the freedom to express oneself as an individual.

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There is no promise of love and light or visions of any kind -- no angels, no devils. Nothing happens: it is absolutely boring. Sometimes you feel silly. One often asks the question, "Who is kidding whom? Am I on to something or not?" You are not on to something. Traveling the path means you get off everything, there is no place to perch. Sit and feel your breath, be with it.

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The Myth of Freedom
Page p. 53
Published by Shambhala , Boston & London , 1988
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Contribution #3510


There will be something, anguish or elation, that is peculiar to this day alone. I rise from sleep and say: Hail to the morning! Come down to me, my beautiful unknown.

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Personally I'm always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught.

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If a book be false in its facts, disprove them; if false in its reasoning, refute it. But for God's sake, let us freely hear both sides if we choose.

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We are reformers in spring and summer; in autumn and winter we stand by the old -- reformers in the morning, conservatives at night. Reform is affirmative, conservatism is negative; conservatism goes for comfort, reform for truth.

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Of course you will insist on modesty in the children, and respect to their teachers, but if the boy stops you in your speech, cries out that you are wrong and sets you right, hug him!

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Emptiness is bound to bloom, like hundreds of grasses blossoming.

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Sky Flowers
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Contribution #3462


The more we learn, the more we question; institutions and beliefs, once immutable, become like a river, fluid, moving, changing.

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My Left Wing
Valerie Tarico
"End Times: Prophecy, Hallucination, or History (comment thread)"
http://www.myleftwing.com/showDiary.do?diaryId=25170#353466
Viewed on July 8, 2009
Contribution #3396


A good listener helps us overhear ourselves.

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“I'm with you in suggesting that we integrate our spirituality through symbols, myths, dreams and stories, instead of fixed certainties. For me the problem with fixed certainties is that they become so fixed they're no longer certain (if not certainly wrong). I also believe that spirituality is full of mystery and paradox, which gives me an opportunity to engage in play.”

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George Polley
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The door of a bigoted mind opens outwards so that the only result of the pressure of facts upon it is to close it more snugly.

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The one who first states a case seems right, until the other comes and cross-examines.

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Bible
Proverbs 18:17
Published by New Revised Standard Version
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Contribution #3238


Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons.

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Page 297
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Contribution #3233


Conservatives define themselves in terms of what they oppose.

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Google
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The human mind treats a new idea the same way the body treats a strange protein; it rejects it.

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We have an innate tendency to characterize the unexpected and unlikely according to our worldview.

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On Being Certain
Page 186
Published by St. Martin's Press , New York , 2008
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Contribution #3179


Albert is a very poor student. He is mentally slow, unsociable and is always daydreaming. He is spoiling it for the rest of the class. It would be in the best interests of all if he were removed from school immediately.

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Contribution #3133


There is wisdom in turning as often as possible from the familiar to the unfamiliar: it keeps the mind nimble, it kills prejudice, and it fosters humor.

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If you can't change your mind, are you sure you still have one?

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Our heads are round so that thoughts can change direction.

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The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.

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It is not enough to simply teach children to read; we have to give them something worth reading. Something that will stretch their imaginations--something that will help them make sense of their own lives and encourage them to reach out toward people whose lives are quite different from their own.

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Sit down before fact as a little child, be prepared to give up every conceived notion, follow humbly wherever and whatever abysses nature leads, or you will learn nothing.

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No his mind is not for rent,
to any god or government.
Always hopeful yet discontent,
he knows changes aren't permanent.
But change is.

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Avoid internalizing society’s sexism, racism, ageism — pick an ism, any ism.

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David Kupfer
"In the Jester's Court"
http://www.thesunmagazine.org/issues/398/in_the_jesters_court?page=2
Viewed on February 2, 2009
Contribution #2989


[W]e all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us.

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We cannot sow seeds with clenched fists. To sow we must open our hands.

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To the scientists of the Renaissance, your critic was really your ally, helping you advance upon reality. Critics in science are not like drama critics, determining flops and successes. Criticism to scientists is just another means of finding out whether they're wrong, like running another experiment to see if it confirms or refutes a theory. Along with the advocacy principle of the courtroom, it is one of the best ways human beings have evolved to get closer to the truth.

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Learned Optimism
Page 42
Published by Pocket Books , New York , 1990, 1998
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Contribution #2812


Let thoughts in and out without pouring concrete on them.

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Differences challenge assumptions.

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Science lets questions determine the answers; Ideology lets answers determine the questions.

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Science means following the questions where they lead, even if you don’t like what the results are telling you.

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Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.

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You can learn a lot more from listening than you can from talking. Find someone with whom you don’t agree in the slightest and ask them to explain themselves at length. Then take a seat, shut your mouth, and don’t argue back. It’s physically impossible to listen with your mouth open.

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Starbucks - The Way I See It #280
http://www.starbucks.com/retail/thewayiseeit_default.asp?act=0&first=2
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We live comfortably in the patches of reality where theory is tolerably successful, where reason is functional and predictability predominates. But any day an unexpected event may expel us from this Eden into the larger world of the incomprehensible.


It is then that our attitude will sustain or sink us. If we can revel in the mystery, keeping faith in our sights, then we will thrive and grow stronger.

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Josh Mitteldorf
"Daily Inspiration 5 October 2008"
http://daily-inspiration.org/
Viewed on November 3, 2008
Contribution #2510


We know what we are, but know not what we may be.

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He that never changes his opinions, never corrects his mistakes, and will never be wiser on the morrow than he is today.

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I am not an advocate for frequent changes in laws and constitutions, but laws and institutions must go hand in hand with the progress of the human mind. As that becomes more developed, more enlightened, as new discoveries are made, new truths discovered and manners and opinions change, with the change of circumstances, institutions must advance also to keep pace with the times. We might as well require a man to wear still the coat which fitted him when a boy as civilized society to remain ever under the regimen of their barbarous ancestors.

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I am comforted by life's stability, by earth's unchangeableness. What has seemed new and frightening assumes its place in the unfolding of knowledge. It is good to know our universe. What is new is only new to us.

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You can judge your age by the amount of pain you feel when you come in contact with a new idea.

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Education either functions as an instrument which is used to facilitate integration of the younger generation into the logic of the present system and bring about conformity or it becomes the practice of freedom, the means by which men and women deal critically and creatively with reality and discover how to participate in the transformation of their world.

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You cannot step twice into the same river, for other waters are continually flowing in.

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The heresy of one age becomes the orthodoxy of the next.

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I cannot say whether things will get better if we change; what I can say is they must change if they are to get better.

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In times of change, learners inherit the Earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.

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It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.

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I don't like that man. I must get to know him better.

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I am simply in favor of intellectual hospitality--that is all. You come to me with a new idea. I invite you into the house. Let us see what you have. Let us talk it over. If I do not like your thought, I will bid it a polite "good day." If I do like it, I will say: "Sit down; stay with me, and become a part of the intellectual wealth of my world."

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What's God Got to Do with It?
by Tim Page
Page 103 ("Free Speech and Honest Talk" 1888)
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-God-Got-Ingersoll-Separation/dp/1586420968/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1224970457&sr=8-1
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The only reason why we wish to exchange thoughts is that we are different. If we were all the same, we would die dumb. No thought would be expressed after we found that our thoughts were precisely alike. We differ--our thoughts are different. Therefore the commerse that we call conversation.

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What's God Got to Do with It
by Tim Page
Page 99 ("Free Speech and Honest Talk", 1888)
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
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Contribution #2270


Every creed is a rock in running water: humanity sweeps by it. Every creed cries to the universe, "Halt!" A creed is the ignorant Past bulling the enlightened Present.

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What's God Got to Do With It?
by Tim Page
Page 67 ("Thomas Paine")
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
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Contribution #2264


The combined wisdom and genius of all mankind cannot possibly conceive of an argument against liberty of thought.

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What's God Got To Do With It?
by Tim Page
Page 63 ("Thomas Paine" 1877)
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, NH , 2005
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Contribution #2263


To open deeply, as genuine spiritual life requires, we need tremendous courage and strength, a kind of warrior spirit.

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A Path with Heart
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And when we would make much of that which cannot matter much to thee, forgive us. --a frequent part of the prayer that opened sermons.

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as quoted by John Shelby Spong
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There is a road from the eye to the heart that does not go through the intellect.

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A man who sees the world the same at fifty as he did at thirty, has wasted twenty years of his life.

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The intelligent and good man holds in his affections the good and true of every land--the boundaries of countries are not the limitations of his sympathies. Caring nothing for race, or color, he loves those who speak other languages and worship other gods. Between him and those who suffer, there is no impassable gulf. He salutes the world, and extends the hand of friendship to the human race. He does not bow before a provincial and patriotic god--one who protects his tribe or nation, and abhores the rest of mankind.

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What's God Got to Do with It?
by Editor: Tim Page
Page 27
Published by Steerforth Press , Hanover, New Hampshire , 2005
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Contribution #2072


In the carriages of the past, you can't go anywhere.

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Who is wise? One who learns from all.

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Talmud
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The only man I know who behaves sensibly is my tailor; he takes my measurements anew each time he sees me. The rest go on with their old measurements and expect me to fit them.

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Wise people are foolish if they cannot adapt to foolish people.

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Everything flows and nothing remains the same. You cannot step in the same river twice.

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Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.

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A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud.

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It takes two to speak the truth--one to speak, and another to hear.

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Guarding knowledge is not a good way to understand. Understanding means to throw away your knowledge. You have to be able to transcend your knowledge the way people climb a ladder.

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The fundamental difference between the liberal and the illiberal outlook is that the former regards all questions as open to discussion and all opinions as open to a greater or lesser measure of doubt, while the latter holds in advance that certain opinions are absolutely unquestionable, and that no argument against them must be allowed be heard.


What is curious about this position is the belief that if impartial investigation were permitted it would lead men to the wrong conclusion, and that ignorance is, therfore, the only safeguard against terror. This point of view cannot be accepted by any man who wishes reason rather than prejudice to govern human action.

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Freedom and the Colleges
http://www.rjgeib.com/thoughts/tsvetayeva/tsvetayeva.html
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I have observed that the world has suffered far less from ignorance than from pretensions to knowledge. It is not skeptics or explorers but fanatics and ideologues who menace decency and progress. No agnostic ever burned anyone at the stake or tortured a pagan, a heretic, or an unbeliever.

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Living Philosophies
Page "The Amateur Spirit"
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You have not converted a man because you have silenced him.

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You see these dictators on their pedestals, surrounded by the bayonets of their soldiers and the truncheons of their police. Yet in their hearts there is unspoken - unspeakable! - fear. They are afraid of words and thoughts! Words spoken abroad, thoughts stirring at home, all the more powerful because they are forbidden. These terrify them. A little mouse - a little tiny mouse! - of thought appears in the room, and even the mightiest potentates are thrown into panic.

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Without free speech no search for truth is possible... no discovery of truth is useful... Better a thousandfold abuse of free speech than denial of free speech. The abuse dies in a day, but the denial slays the life of the people, and entombs the hope of the race.

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Charles Bradlaugh
http://www.rjgeib.com/thoughts/burning/burning.html
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Books won't stay banned. They won't burn. Ideas won't go to jail. In the long run of history, the censor and the inquisitor have always lost. The only sure weapon against bad ideas is better ideas. The source of better ideas is wisdom. The surest path to wisdom is a liberal education.

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Essays on Education
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Feedback is the breakfast of champions.

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Guarding knowledge is not a good way to understand.  Understanding means to throw away your knowledge.  You have to be able to transcend your knowledge the way people climb a ladder.  If you are on the fifth step of a ladder and think that you are very high, there is no hope for you to climb to the sixth.

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Being Peace
by Arnold Kotler
Page 58
Published by Parallax Press , Berkeley, CA, USA , 1996
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Contribution #1617


If you stop and confine yourself to one place, you will develop prejudices.

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The Little Book of Chinese Proverbs
by Jonathan Clements
Page 183
Published by Barnes & Noble Books , New York , 2003
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Contribution #1607


Shade and light are different in every valley.

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The Little Book of Chinese Proverbs
by Jonathan Clements
Page 165
Published by Barnes & Noble Books , New York , 2003
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Hear all sides and you will be enlightened. Hear one side and you will be in the dark.

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The Little Book of Chinese Proverbs
by Jonathan Clements
Page 153
Published by Barnes & Noble Books , New York , 2003
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Do not worry if others do not understand you.  Worry if you do not understand them.

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Find enlightenment through heeding many points of view.  Find ignorance through heeding few.

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If the future is to remain open and free,
we need people who can tolerate the unknown,
who will not need the support of completeley
worked-out systems or traditional blueprints from the past.

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It's a mistake to surround yourself
only with people just like you.
Throw off that worn comforter --
and replace it with a crazy quilt of
different and imaginative people.
Then watch the ideas erupt!

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Cultural differences should not separate us from each other, but rather cultural diversity brings a collective strength that can benefit all of humanity.

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Robert Alan
http://www.betterworld.net/quotes/diversity-quotes.htm
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Contribution #1101


Your mind has enormous hidden dimensions. Open yourselves completely to whatever reactions and emotions the world evokes from time to time. Accept them all without any reservation or resentment. By assimilating everything and all, your mind grows deeper, stabler and more enriched.

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Swami Boomananda Tirtha
http://wiki.seedsofcompassion.org
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Receptivity and sensitiveness are what makes one’s behaviour endearing and enriching. Do not try to thrust your likes and dislikes on others. Try instead, to find out what those around would expect from you and where you can possibly contribute. Rather than feeling conflict or confrontation every time, look for and generate greater notes of harmony.

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Swami Boomananda Tirtha
http://wiki.seedsofcompassion.org
Contribution #1060


Creativity can never be explained by appeal to reason alone.  Like the birth of a child, creativity compels us not to explanation but to wonder and awe.

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Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.

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Buddha
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Viewed on April 21, 2008
Contribution #955


We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion.

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Max DePree
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/m/maxdepree125756.html
Viewed on April 13, 2008
Contribution #645


Libraries are reservoirs of strength, grace and wit, reminders of order, calm and continuity, lakes of mental energy, neither warm nor cold, light nor dark. The pleasure they give is steady, unorgastic, reliable, deep and long-lasting. In any library in the world, I am at home, unselfconscious, still and absorbed.

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Germaine Greer
Viewed on April 10, 2008
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