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Forbearance or self-control is the ability to exercise restraint, to stay in balance. It is allowing yourself to be measured and temperate in your response to trying circumstances. It is having the ability to constrain your own worst impulses and allowing thoughtful, wiser aspects of yourself to govern what you say and do. It is about being patent and even keeled while enduring hardships. (Related virtues: patience, temperance, balance, restraint).
Forbearance
Never answer a critic, unless he's right.

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Baruch, Bernard
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The basic difference between being assertive and being aggressive is how our words and behavior affect the rights and well being of others.

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The highest proof of virtue is to possess boundless power without abusing it.

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Life and Writings of Addison
by Aikin, Lucy
Published in 1943
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I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.

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Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation leans on the doorbell. 

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Self-respect is the root of discipline:  The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself. 

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Heschel, Abraham Joshua
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Contribution #1000
Prudent, cautious self-control, is wisdom's root.

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That one I love who is incapable of ill will, and returns love for hatred. Living beyond the reach of I and mind, and of pain and pleasure, full of mercy, contented, self-controlled, with all his heart and all his mind given to Me -- with such a one I am in love.

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Pity and forbearance should characterize all acts of justice.

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Franklin, Benjamin
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Viewed on April 15, 2008
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