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Assertiveness means being positive and confident about ourselves-- our ideas, opinions and talents--and expressing these in the service of our values. It means acting on aspirations and exercising abilities,recognizing that each person is expressive and affirmative in a unique way.


Assertiveness is the positive form of aggressiveness. When we are assertive, we have the strength to resist negative or hurtful influences.We think for ourselves, ask for what we need, and speak up to protect our selves and others.


When we practice assertiveness, we practice self-esteem, citizenship, and valor. Though it may not always seem so, to be assertive is to be a blessing in the world.

Assertiveness

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Here I stand; I can do no other.

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Traditional attribution to Martin Luther at the Diet of Worms in 1521 now doubted
"Diet of Worms"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diet_of_Worms
Viewed on March 9, 2010
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In this holiday season let us remember that kindness, charity and goodwill transcend belief, creed or religion. Happy Holidays"

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Approved sign posted on the Washington State Capitol grounds
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The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.

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The breeze of grace is always blowing; set your sail to catch that breeze.

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That rifle on the wall of the labourer's cottage or working class flat is the symbol of democracy. It is our job to see that it stays there.

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ORWELL: THE AUTHORIZED BIOGRAPHY
by Michael Sheldon
Page Chapter Seventeen, pages 355 - 358
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When once you have taken the impossible into your calculations, it's possibilities become practically limitless!

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I read this and copied it down to carry in my wallet more than 20 years ago. Do not remember the exact source.
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Moral cowardice that keeps us from speaking our minds is as dangerous to this country as irresponsible talk. The right way is not always the popular and easy way. Standing for right when it is unpopular is a true test of moral character.

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When one comes to think of it, there are no such things as divine, immutable, or inalienable rights. Rights are things we get when we are strong enough to make good our claim on them.

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No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.

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Dost thou reckon thyself a puny form, when within thee the universe is folded?

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Virtues Reflection Cards
http://www.virtueproject.com
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Wisdom is knowing when to speak your mind and when to mind your speech.

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God is a verb.

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No More Secondhand God
Published in 1963
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Buckminster_Fuller
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There may be times when we are powerless to prevent injustice, but there must never be a time when we fail to protest.

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Get up, stand up
Stand up for your rights
Get up, stand up
Don't give up the fight.

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Nothing strengthens authority so much as silence.

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To sin by silence when they should protest makes cowards of men.

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The voice of protest, of warning, of appeal is never more needed than when the clamor of fife and drum, echoed by the press and too often by the pulpit, is bidding all men fall in step and obey in silence the tyrannous word of command. Then, more than ever, it is the duty of the good citizen not to be silent.

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As we must account for every idle word, so must we account for every idle silence.

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Change means movement, movement means friction, friction means heat, and heat means controversy.

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Saul Alinsky
http://www.ealasaid.com/quotes/a-c.html
Viewed on May 12, 2008
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Tell everyone what you want to do and someone will want to help you do it.

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W. Clement Stone
http://www.quotations.about.com
Viewed on May 1, 2008
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Give the world the best you've got.  It may not be enough.  Do good anyway.

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Mother Theresa
http://wiki.seedsofcompassion.org
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No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit.

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One of the biggest obstacles to people improving their self-esteem is their constant need for approval by others. The problem with this is that until you believe in yourself, it will never matter what someone else says because the most important person doesn't believe it, You.

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Catherine Pratt
http://www.life-with-confidence.com/inner-voice-limiting-beliefs.html
Viewed on March 1, 2008
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History will have to record
That the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition
Was not the vitriolic words and the violent actions of the bad people
But the appalling silence and indifference of the good.
Our generation will have to repent not
Only for the words and actions of the children of darkness
But also for the fears and apathy of the
children of light.

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Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

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And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. 

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To live is to choose. But to choose, you must know who you are and what you stand for, where you want to go, and why you want to get there

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To the world you may be just somebody,
but to somebody you may just be the world.

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He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away

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No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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Never argue, repeat your assertion.

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Assertiveness is not what you do, it's who you are!

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The basic difference between being assertive and being aggressive is how our words and behavior affect the rights and well being of others.

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I am prejudiced in favor of him who, without impudence, can ask boldly. He has faith in humanity, and faith in himself. No one who is not accustomed to giving grandly can ask nobly and with boldness.

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Johann Kaspar Lataver
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We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.

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